Relationships

This has really been a hot topic recently, at least to me. And I have been thinking a lot about what I want in my future wife, what I think a marriage should be about and what sort of a husband I will be. I've come down to the conclusion that the girl I'm going to marry has to be more of my friend than anything. Because once they get older and their outward beauty fades, what's left intact is their heart. I can not wait to love one girl for the rest of my life. And I'm nervous of making a mistake of marrying a girl and not getting along, but that's definitely something I will have to trust God on more and more. But I would 100% be happy with not marrying. I love being single now, but I absolutely love having girls for close friends. So I don't think I could live life without having a girl as a friend. Girls are pretty fantastic, especially once you get past the whole, dramatic girl part, they're cool. Particularly the ones I am blessed to have as my friends. Bebe, Leah, Courtney, Brianna, Shelby and Jordan are the coolest girls I have ever met. In all of them I can see things I want my future wife to have, and that's a testimony to their awesomeness. And I honestly think I understand girls better than most guys. I say that only because despite my sexist jokes sometimes, I respect respectable girls, and that goes a long way (Hint for the guys). And I love being friends with girls, and because of this I choose not to date. I love having a group of girl friends and I feel like being in a relationship is too much of a commitment to one person at this point. Now don't get me wrong and think I hate commitment (Like Sam ;)), because I cannot wait to be committed to one girl for the rest of my life. But I know that it is too soon for me to be searching for that one, and until I think it is time to do so, I won't date. So guys, in the words of my good friend A.J., "You should like girls." And girls, keep being you, and don't be dramatic. And if your the dramatic type of girl, don't be you so you won't be dramatic. Because guys hate drama. Have a great day everyone. :)