
Friday, September 30, 2011
Being a Gentleman
I feel like this topic is a universal one that isn't taught as much as it should to guys and it is really showing in the way they treat girls. First of all, girls are NOT property, they are a prize, a treasure that should be treated with an utmost respect, sincerity and kindness. Secondly, do the little things. If a girl is walking into a building that has a door, open it for her. Yes, she is perfectly capable of doing said action, but you should still do it out of respect and being nice. Also, it doesn't matter what age the girl is, she could be 45 and married and you should still open the door for her, or she could be your age and the one you like (in this case, you should definitely be a gentleman). Either way, be polite. Another thing is that if you as a guy have a jacket and a girl is freezing to death, give it to her because like I said earlier, they should be treasured and that means keeping them comfortable. Obviously there are many things that guys should do for girls, and I don't have time to mention them all. But the overlapping message here is that guys should treat girls with respect and not as a lesser being. Sure guys and girls don't see eye to eye on things (height or opinions) but that doesn't mean that we as guys are always right or that girls are always right. Back to my original point, I honestly think that guys should be like shepherds to girls. Before you start making assumptions, I am in no way saying that girls are mindless creatures wandering around. Rather I am saying the opposite. Guys should be willing to fight to protect girls in the face of all adversities, and it shouldn't matter if they're fat, skinny, pretty, or ugly, but that they're a girl. And God, in my opinion, poured out His beauty and grace into this gender. All girls have some sort of beauty in them and if they try even the slightest bit. So to all the girls reading, you're beautiful in God's eyes as well as in mine. This leads me to another point, girls should be treated as princesses by guys. And no, I am not saying as in Disney movies, but as in real life princesses. I say this because girls are beautiful as mentioned before, and they are also elegant and noble in heart (girls, don't forget this and make sure you try your best to live up to that). All in all, guys, yo need to step it up in being gentlemen, because unfortunately I am seeing way to many girls being treated harshly and badly. This doesn't let girls off the hook though, because we as guys may not always be perfect in treating girls right but some of us do make an effort and girls, just keep on being beautiful. Also, girls, don't take this as me saying girls are better, because we are equal overall and better than the other at certain things.

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What if a girl is walking into a building that doesn't have a door?
ReplyDeleteHaha! I thought about making a joke about that but I refrained. And your job is already done. Haha!
ReplyDeleteHaha Sam's comment made me laugh out loud!
ReplyDeleteBut anywho.. Preach is Adam :) I enjoyed your blog!